Can introverts thrive in medicine?

Dear QMR, 
Can introverts thrive in medicine? 
Sincerely,
Demure Doctor-To-Be

Dear Demure, 

In a word – yes! 
In my first week of Medical School, a faculty lecturer implied that introverts would have a tough time in medicine making friends and staying connected to the community. I left that class wondering the same thing as you – how would I make friends and succeed in a field that often demands direct leadership and meeting new people each day? 

I think that being an introvert in medicine is actually a secret strength. You will understand team dynamics through observation, make patients feel comfortable by giving them one-on-one time, and already have built resiliency skills for times in medical school when you’re inevitably more alone or isolated. 

A few ways to put yourself out there: 

1. Try a lot of things, even just once. You may be able to find your community of people with whom you feel safe, and with whom spending time with is a pleasure. You may  also find an activity or group that’s enjoyable regardless of who you’re doing it with. 
2. Make friends with the extroverts 1-on-1. You’ll get passed the small talk and chaos of large groups, and always have a friend to pull you into the action (when you want to!). 
3. Take time for yourself – there will always be more medicine, more opportunities, more things to see and do. Never feel guilty about focusing on what you need to feel good and prioritize what is most important to you. 
4. Celebrate your accomplishments and don’t sell yourself short. You’ve achieved great things and will keep achieving more. Allow yourself to be the center of attention once in a while – you deserve it. 

Best of luck – you’ve got this! 

Cheers, 
A Perky Wallflower